need their parents to stop doing these things

Many modern kids are being raised with a "poor me" or victim mentality

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an unhealthy, self-destructive “poor me” attitude, that leads to a hard time handling normal life circumstances

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There are 4 tell tale signs that you are raising a kid with

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1) They "predict" bad outcomes

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2) Blame others when things go wrong

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3) They wallow in self-pity

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4) They over-exaggerate negative events

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Luckily, there is something you can do about it!

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need their parents to stop doing these things

Kids with "Poor Me" Mindsets

Many modern kids are being raised with a "poor me" or victim mentality

-Said no mom ever

So, what exactly is that?

an unhealthy, self-destructive “poor me” attitude, that leads to a hard time handling normal life circumstances

A victim mentality is

There are 4 tell tale signs that you are raising a kid with

a "poor me" mindset

1) They "predict" bad outcomes

2) Blame others when things go wrong

3) They wallow in self-pity

You might hear your "poor me" child say things like "that's not fair, I NEVER get to do anything fun"

4) They over-exaggerate negative events

“every single time I try to play outside it rains.”

Luckily, there is something you can do about it!

Raise Kids with a Growth Mindset by making these

5 Parenting Adjustments

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Your child to a Growth Mindset with These Parenting Tips

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