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21 Deep Conversation Starters That Actually Get Kids Talking

Get your kids actually talking to you with these 21 deep Conversation Starters – specifically designed for kids. Also, learn why it’s so important to replace small talk with meaningful bonding moments. Start with these fun topics and questions.

A normal after school conversation with my kids goes a little something like this:

  • Me: Hi! How was your day?
  • Kids: Fine (emotionless)
  • Me: Did you do anything special?
  • Kids: Nope (already trying to walk away from me)
  • Me: What did you have for lunch? (throwing them a soft-ball question)
  • Kids: I don’t remember (clearly lying to move past me)
  • Me: Did anything bad happen?
  • Kids: Nope (beyond annoyed that I keep asking boring questions)

It’s can be hard to connect with our kids and teens – through conversation alone. They are so distracted. So busy.

So, how do we break that shell of boredom and question fatigue and dive into their minds?

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Why We MUST Connect with Our Kids

Undeniably, it is part of our human nature to need to feel connected. We need water, food, and human interaction to thrive (proven by studies).

But in this digital, fast-paced world, a lot of our “connections” are ingenuine. We are at risk of raising an army of social media robots.

Basically, small talk with our kids is not going to cut it. As parents, we need to do a better job at finding ways to encourage our kids to open up.

This is the only way to develop a strong family foundation, positive and meaningful relationships, and resilient kids.

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Get Kids Talking with 21 Deep Conversations Starters for Kids

Engaging in deep conversations with children can foster their critical thinking skills, emotional intelligence, and broaden their perspectives.

The benefits are enormous when even some of those “everyday” interactions become intentional and purposeful.

Here are twenty-one thought-provoking conversation starters to ignite meaningful dialogues with kids:

  1. What is the most important quality a friend should have, and why?
  2. If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be and how would it make a difference?
  3. How do you think kindness can make the world a better place?
  4. What does it mean to have empathy for someone? Can you think of a time when you showed empathy towards others?
  5. If you could choose any superpower, what would it be and how would you use it to help others?
  6. What is the difference between right and wrong? Can you give an example of a situation where it might be hard to distinguish between the two?
  7. How does diversity make our lives better? Why is it important to appreciate and respect our differences?
  8. What does success mean to you? Is it more important to be successful or happy?
  9. If you could talk to any historical figure, who would it be and why?
  10. How does honesty strengthen relationships? Can you think of a time when telling the truth was difficult but necessary?
  11. What skills do you think will be essential for the future? How can we develop those skills?
  12. Why is it important to take care of our environment? What can we do to help protect the planet?
  13. How does technology impact our lives? Is it always a positive influence?
  14. What are some ways we can show gratitude towards others? Why is gratitude important?
  15. What do you think is the biggest challenge facing kids your age? How can we overcome it?
  16. How does imagination play a role in problem-solving and creativity?
  17. What are some ways we can show kindness towards animals? Why is it important to treat them with respect?
  18. Do you think everyone deserves a second chance? Why or why not?
  19. What do you think life is about? Do you believe in God?
  20. What role does education play in shaping our future? How can we make learning more engaging and enjoyable?
  21. What do you think heaven is like?

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Final Thoughts on Deep Conversation Starters for Kids

In summary, conversation starters are an essential part of a well-rooted family with a strong foundation.

I like to call these questions “good question….” questions. Because usually when I ask my kid’s these questions they start off with “hmmm…good question”.

So, delve into your kid’s fascinating and insightful perspectives with these deep conversation starters for kids.

This will help you foster a strong and lasting relationship with your growing and evolving children.

Afterall let’s be honest, that is what we all want and what all kids need.

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